Six isn’t a crowd here.
A polyamorous family of six has managed to make their dynamic work — despite being misunderstood by many.
Kel Macettare, 41 and Bruno Cordisco, 42, met in highschool, married and eventually had two sons, Henry, 19 and Hector, 13.
Although the couple got down to be monogamous, especially once they decided to have children — after being together for years, they decided they desired to try something recent to spice things up.
“Bruno and I actually have lived under the identical roof for 19 years,” Macettare told NeedToKnow.
Macettare and Cordisco first began exploring polyamory by visiting swingers’ clubs. To their surprise, they each met and fell in love with other people.
“At first, I wasn’t ready for polyamory and even considered ending the connection,” she said. “But every thing happened with quite a lot of respect.”
The duo never expected to search out such joy in expanding their marriage and family to incorporate outside people — and now the comfortable family of six manages to make it work for everybody.
Macettare is dating a person named Diego Machado and Cordisco is dating a lady named Jennifer de Faria.
Machado lives within the family’s home while Fairia visits often on the weekends.
There are two bedrooms for each couples, so everyone can have privacy.
And the way does this family manage to all live under the identical roof? “Everyone helps out.”
“Bruno normally cooks and does the grocery shopping, and Jennifer helps with these tasks,” Macettare said.
Cordisco handles the laundry and the guest bathroom, Macettare cleans the floors, and the youngsters handle their responsibilities.
“Henry does the dishes, and Hector cleans the cat litter, takes out the trash, and wipes the sink,” their mother explained.
With regards to making decisions regarding their family, the 4 adults have private discussions “to take care of consistent authority.”
“We’ve all the time raised them based on partnership. They usually know they will argue their points responsibly.”
Despite outsiders not fully understanding this polyamorous family’s dynamic — they do what’s best for them and ignore the haters.
“People think it’s chaos, but there’s quite a lot of communication here. We don’t romanticise it,” Cordisco chimed in.
“It’s emotional work on a regular basis. However it’s price it.”
Six isn’t a crowd here.
A polyamorous family of six has managed to make their dynamic work — despite being misunderstood by many.
Kel Macettare, 41 and Bruno Cordisco, 42, met in highschool, married and eventually had two sons, Henry, 19 and Hector, 13.
Although the couple got down to be monogamous, especially once they decided to have children — after being together for years, they decided they desired to try something recent to spice things up.
“Bruno and I actually have lived under the identical roof for 19 years,” Macettare told NeedToKnow.
Macettare and Cordisco first began exploring polyamory by visiting swingers’ clubs. To their surprise, they each met and fell in love with other people.
“At first, I wasn’t ready for polyamory and even considered ending the connection,” she said. “But every thing happened with quite a lot of respect.”
The duo never expected to search out such joy in expanding their marriage and family to incorporate outside people — and now the comfortable family of six manages to make it work for everybody.
Macettare is dating a person named Diego Machado and Cordisco is dating a lady named Jennifer de Faria.
Machado lives within the family’s home while Fairia visits often on the weekends.
There are two bedrooms for each couples, so everyone can have privacy.
And the way does this family manage to all live under the identical roof? “Everyone helps out.”
“Bruno normally cooks and does the grocery shopping, and Jennifer helps with these tasks,” Macettare said.
Cordisco handles the laundry and the guest bathroom, Macettare cleans the floors, and the youngsters handle their responsibilities.
“Henry does the dishes, and Hector cleans the cat litter, takes out the trash, and wipes the sink,” their mother explained.
With regards to making decisions regarding their family, the 4 adults have private discussions “to take care of consistent authority.”
“We’ve all the time raised them based on partnership. They usually know they will argue their points responsibly.”
Despite outsiders not fully understanding this polyamorous family’s dynamic — they do what’s best for them and ignore the haters.
“People think it’s chaos, but there’s quite a lot of communication here. We don’t romanticise it,” Cordisco chimed in.
“It’s emotional work on a regular basis. However it’s price it.”
