A grieving mother has slammed her husband for his behavior following a heartbreaking pregnancy loss, on his birthday.
She was eight weeks along when her pregnancy took a devastating turn.
“I’ve never had a miscarriage before and this baby was so wished for,” she shared online.
Just the day before, the couple had seen a powerful heartbeat on an ultrasound.
But while fiddling with her two-year-old, the mother began feeling pressure in her lower abdomen.
“He’d stopped to choose up some beers”
“I noticed bleeding and I let my husband know immediately that I had discomfort. Before long I had passed what I consider is the fetus and I messaged him ‘I believe I lost the child,’” she explained.
“I asked if he could come home and he said ‘after all, if it’s urgent’. I said I believe it’s since the pain and bleeding is getting worse and I’m beginning to feel lightheaded.”
It must have taken the daddy half-hour to get home. It took an hour.
“It was because he’d stopped to choose up some beers,” she revealed.
She was eventually taken to hospital and discharged with instructions to rest. But that meant their original plans to rejoice his birthday were off the table.
“Last week, I had said I’d make him his favorite dinner for his birthday, which he jogged my memory of after we were almost home. I said I wasn’t feeling as much as it and that whatever takeaway he wants is on me,” she explained.
His response?
“He said ‘for f–k sake’ under his breath after which muttered something along the lines of ‘this bulls–t has ruined my birthday’,” she recounted.
“Husband can go straight within the bin”
Things have only turn into worse since then.
“He’s been giving me silent treatment. I attempted to talk to him about an hour or so ago and he ignored me and I called him a disgrace,” she explained.
Feeling abandoned, she turned to Reddit for support. Unsurprisingly, users were quick to rally behind her.
“Your marriage is over. How long you stick with him is as much as you. But this man is neither husband nor father material,” one wrote.
“Husband can go straight within the bin,” one other agreed.
“This is just not a momentary lapse of judgement, it is a long run failure of character,” a 3rd added.
His family have also reached out with little sympathy.
“His mom has since messaged me and said I have to be patient as he’s also had a loss. She didn’t ask how I used to be or anything,” the grieving woman shared.
“She said I used to be harsh.”
Now, she’s left feeling raw, unsupported, and emotionally isolated.
“I’m feeling utterly emotionally neglected immediately. My body has been through emotional and physical hell.
“I understand that my miscarriage got here at a f–king inconvenient time for him because it was his birthday and all. I’m unsure if it’s the hormones making me feel crazy but is it nuts to contemplate divorce?”
A grieving mother has slammed her husband for his behavior following a heartbreaking pregnancy loss, on his birthday.
She was eight weeks along when her pregnancy took a devastating turn.
“I’ve never had a miscarriage before and this baby was so wished for,” she shared online.
Just the day before, the couple had seen a powerful heartbeat on an ultrasound.
But while fiddling with her two-year-old, the mother began feeling pressure in her lower abdomen.
“He’d stopped to choose up some beers”
“I noticed bleeding and I let my husband know immediately that I had discomfort. Before long I had passed what I consider is the fetus and I messaged him ‘I believe I lost the child,’” she explained.
“I asked if he could come home and he said ‘after all, if it’s urgent’. I said I believe it’s since the pain and bleeding is getting worse and I’m beginning to feel lightheaded.”
It must have taken the daddy half-hour to get home. It took an hour.
“It was because he’d stopped to choose up some beers,” she revealed.
She was eventually taken to hospital and discharged with instructions to rest. But that meant their original plans to rejoice his birthday were off the table.
“Last week, I had said I’d make him his favorite dinner for his birthday, which he jogged my memory of after we were almost home. I said I wasn’t feeling as much as it and that whatever takeaway he wants is on me,” she explained.
His response?
“He said ‘for f–k sake’ under his breath after which muttered something along the lines of ‘this bulls–t has ruined my birthday’,” she recounted.
“Husband can go straight within the bin”
Things have only turn into worse since then.
“He’s been giving me silent treatment. I attempted to talk to him about an hour or so ago and he ignored me and I called him a disgrace,” she explained.
Feeling abandoned, she turned to Reddit for support. Unsurprisingly, users were quick to rally behind her.
“Your marriage is over. How long you stick with him is as much as you. But this man is neither husband nor father material,” one wrote.
“Husband can go straight within the bin,” one other agreed.
“This is just not a momentary lapse of judgement, it is a long run failure of character,” a 3rd added.
His family have also reached out with little sympathy.
“His mom has since messaged me and said I have to be patient as he’s also had a loss. She didn’t ask how I used to be or anything,” the grieving woman shared.
“She said I used to be harsh.”
Now, she’s left feeling raw, unsupported, and emotionally isolated.
“I’m feeling utterly emotionally neglected immediately. My body has been through emotional and physical hell.
“I understand that my miscarriage got here at a f–king inconvenient time for him because it was his birthday and all. I’m unsure if it’s the hormones making me feel crazy but is it nuts to contemplate divorce?”
