Trans actress, director and activist Tommy Dorfman tells Alexa that her fashion and wonder philosophy is easy: “Lean into what feels good.” (Right away, that’s floral dresses, a go-to designer carryall, statement sunglasses and a signature scent.)
The identical may very well be said concerning the Atlanta-born Brooklynite’s profession. After making a reputation for herself on the hit TV show “13 Reasons Why” as Ryan Shaver, she has branched out, working on fashion campaigns with the likes of Calvin Klein, Fendi, Coach, and Balmain, and recently supporting designer Collina Strada.
She’s created an inclusive digital lifestyle and e-commerce platform championing queer and trans artists called Curran, and hosts the favored “My First Time” podcast. Dorfman, 31, is currently in Austin for SXSW, promoting her feature directorial debut, “I Wish You All of the Best.” It’s an adaptation of Mason Deaver’s coming-of-age novel with a nonbinary protagonist, starring Cole Sprouse and Alexandra Daddario.
It’s clear the multi-hyphenate (who’s currently engaged to “a gay girl”) shouldn’t be done expanding her empire (a book of essays for HarperCollins is next!) and continues to look stunning while slaying it. Listed below are a few of the things — from food to fashion — that make her feel her best possible.
FAVORITE FRAGRANCE: Fenty Beauty “Fenty” eau de parfum (2.5 oz.), $140 at Sephora
“I first used this once I did a brand take care of them after they launched — and have since not been in a position to stop wearing it. I’ve never gotten more compliments on a fragrance in my life.”
FAVORITE SPRING DRESS: “Florencia” dress, $398 at Doen
“Doen has a chokehold on my spring-summer wardrobe. The garments are effortless and simple in sweltering Recent York City weather.”
FAVORITE SHADES: “Triomphe” metal sunglasses, $550 at Celine
“Timeless, classic, beautiful.”
FAVORITE HANDBAG: “Terrasse” leather bag, $2,990 at The Row
“My on a regular basis bag that I got on sale in Berlin last yr. Sadly, the strap broke after just a few months, but I used to be in a position to get it repaired and he or she’s still kicking!”
FAVORITE TARGET RUN: Liquid I.V. Hydration Multiplier electrolyte powder, $15 at Goal
“I’m unsure if it’s a placebo effect, but I’m now depending on this anytime I travel.”
FAVORITE HEALTHY SNACK: 365 by Whole Foods Market Organic Dark Chocolate Nuts & Berries Trail Mix, $13 at Amazon
“Trail mix and blueberries are all the time on my desk in the course of the work week.”
FAVORITE SELF-CARE TOOL: Age-R Booster-H Glow Boost wand , $330 at Medicube
“This face LED helps my skin absorb product.”
FAVORITE BASIC: Rib Fitted Racer Tank, $36 at Easy Standard Apparel
“It’s the gayest tank top and I like it!”
FAVORITE TIMEPIECE: Panthère de Cartier watch in 18-k yellow gold, $23,300 at Cartier
“That is aspirational. I just think it’s timeless and ideal so if I used to be investing in a watch, I might put money into this and pass it all the way down to my children.”
FAVORITE RING: “Ceaselessly & All the time a Pair-Love” band in 18-k yellow gold with sapphires, from $2,900 at Foundrae
“I wear it each day and it’s perfection. I like supporting queer-owned brands.”
FAVORITE SPRING COAT: Kensington Trench, $368 at Reformation
“The East Coast rain has me eyeing this cutie.”
FAVORITE SPRING SHOES: “Ginger” Mary Janes, $250 at Loeffler Randall
“Loeffler Randall makes shoes for ladies with larger feet without sacrificing comfort or style. Their 42 suits like a 43+, so size down if you happen to’re going for it.”
FAVORITE ALBUM: Florence + The Machine “How Big, How Blue, How Beautiful double vinyl set, $35 at Amazon
“Anytime I feel anxious or stressed I blast this from start to complete.”
FAVORITE SWEET TREAT: Milk Bar “Birthday Cake” ice cream, $6 at Goal
“Birthday cake ice cream. Just try it.”
FAVORITE MOOD-SETTER: “Cotton Poplin” candle, $47 at Byredo
“Spring and summer scent unlocked.”
FAVORITE HAIR PRODUCT: Willow Glen Treatment Oil, $48 at Rōz
“Rōz has the very best natural hair products I do know of they usually work well with my curly, frizzy-prone hair.”
FAVORITE LIP GLOSS: Saie Glossybounce High-Shine Hydrating Lip Gloss Oil, $22 at Sephora
“Buildable hydration — and it’s great for layering over a color.”
FAVORITE BOOK: “Bellies” novel by Nicola Dinan, $15 at Amazon
“‘Bellies’ is a groundbreaking and gut-wrenching novel with a trans love story at its core.”
