We’re naked and ashamed.
A whopping 95% of sex-havers participating in a spicy recent survey admitted to being a minimum of somewhat kinky — while greater than 60% said they were too embarrassed or frightened to share their dirty desires with a partner.
The findings, presented by the sexperts at dating-app Flure, found that 51% of the two,000 respondents quizzed confessed to being afraid their other half would react badly — in the event that they knew the reality about their deepest desires.
Not only that, nearly 20% said they couldn’t trust their bedroom buddy to not kiss and tell.
In actual fact, 37% said they might happily sign a non-disclosure agreement before starting a recent relationship that ensures their secrets stay behind closed doors — with one other 43% saying they were potentially involved in the thought.
“Kinks are a natural a part of human sexuality — our study shows that only 5% of individuals claim they don’t have any. Yet, despite their commonality, many still fear expressing these desires attributable to concerns about judgment or rejection,” Flure’s Leah Levi said in a written statement.
“But this suppression creates emotional distance, resulting in dissatisfaction in the long term. When partners feel they’ll’t be fully honest with one another, trust erodes, and that lack of openness can weaken the emotional bond between them,” Levi said.
Keeping sex secrets from an intimate partner can result in dissatisfaction and emotional distance, the experts said.
Greater than 40% said a scarcity of full disclosure was having a negative impact on their relationships.
A number of the hottest kinks, in response to the survey, were public sex (50% said they were turned on by the thought), while 49% were interested in a threesome.
One in seven respondents admitted to foot fetishes and an interest in cuckolding.
Greater than half said they were unfulfilled sexually.
